Oh yea, Valentine is TODAY and so what do i hv planned for myself on this memorable time of the year where roses will be extremely expensive and "Boyfriends" will be pouring their money out to impressed their spouse or partner by buying them expensive gifts which comes in a form of shoes, jewelleries(those rich-kidz buying affection, dAMN!, I wish I was as rich like them), for some creative/artisticz ones would be gifts which are not expensive but memorable which made up of those pictures taken together in the duration of their relationships.. Lastly, to top thingz up, they would be spending their girl-friend a meal in some "chun" ass (candle lights + some idiotic violin peepz fiddling with their violin). ~sigh~ Anyway, totally salute those peepz who spent so much for their partner and may their love will be more than the price of those glamorous gifts.
The post for today is not to boast about Valentine as it is pretty much like some ordinary day to me, I talked cock, I did some studying though some distraction from the radio, (they have been constantly playing love songs over the radio due to Valentine's), I played pool, n so wat if I don't have candle light dinnerz, partners, presents..... SO WAT????????????
In my earlier years, I ruined my earlier life because of such narrow thinking regarding love. I was evaluating EVERY single options open to me before gettin into a relationship. By the time I've decided about 'love' the both of us would have gotten sick of everything: me being sick of not finding the sure answer I search for.
It's just wrong.. You see a person you like and she (or he, if you're a girl) feels the same way, get it on. Enjoy the moment. Don't bother about the outcome of the relationship as you both are just tender footz in love and what the fuck do you understand about true love when you can't even earn a comfortable living for yourself.. Think about it.
The eastern culture cultivates the mind like mine of years ago. They teach us to be over-cautious. Like how the Chinese would conduct their business. They think hard from every aspect of the business, feng shuiz, location, population,etc in order for their business to prosper but are they happy ???
I don't know bout that....
However, the Westerners have adopted a more relaxed mind, they expressed themselves openly and accept the fact if they are not meant for each other. They tend to rush into things they are passionate about. Sure, many might fail. Regardless of that, don't you think that they would be much happier either way? They did things they felt strongly for and at least they can say that they've attempted so. My point is you've gotta be a sport person and play a good games so that both you and your opponent enjoy yourselves and leave feeling reenergised and raring to go. Playing games isn't about deception but about understanding the subtleties of what makes your opposite number tick, so that it keeps the adrenaline going. I don't mean we should all start scheming the ways of getting women into our lair and manipulating them (though that sounds fun). Being too available too soon signals desperation and loneliness, but more than that it reveals that you're too willing to give your personal power away to someone else. That someone else will step all over you as a result.
Game-playing continues well into a steady relationship not in terms of deception or cheating but of making sure you keep back something for yourself, hold on to a few playing cards that could be useful in future. Playing a game in a relationship allows you to hold on to your identity, thus it maintain your attraction. It simply means, staying flirty, adventurous and outspoken as you were before. And it keeps the other person in line, for they know they can lose you if they start to get too comfortable and neglects you. To sum up, stay the same person you were before and during the whole big, messy, but totally exciting, dating adventure. Welcome to this ball game called love, the game that everyone will never miss out in their life.
